Shri Shri Ganapati

 

Children - Fertility - Adoption

Parents' charts showing acquisition of children (biological or adoptive)

Fra Angelico. Annunciation. c.1432-1434. Museo Diocesano, Cortona, Italy

Fra Angelico. l'Annunciazione. c.1432-1434. Museo Diocesano, Cortona, Italy

BPHS Putra Bhava

Putra Bhava, ruled by Ravi

Navagraha in bhava-5

12 Lordsin bhava-5

Children

Politics
Parents
Guru
Chandra

~~ Kahlil Gibran

You may give them your love but not your thoughts.

For they have their own thoughts.

You may house their bodies but not their souls.

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow,

which you cannot visit,

not even in your dreams.

~~ Lao Tzu

It gives birth to them and nurtures them,

It gives birth to them but does not possess them,

It rears them but does not control them,

This is called "mysterious integrity."

Child Indicators:

  1. bhava-5 and L-5

  2. bhava-9 and L-9

  3. bhava-1 and L-1

  4. Guru and 5th-from-Guru

  5. Chandra and 5th-from-Chandra

  6. Saptamsha and the D-7 amsha lord of radix L-5+L-9, As the amsha lord behaves in radix

  7. Navamsha and the D-9 amsha lord of radix L-5+L-9, As the amsha lord behaves in radix

Fertility Indicators:

  • Shukra represents `shukla' or `semen' as the male fertility indicators

  • Kuja represents `sonita' or female power to generate life.

 

If a child lives with criticism, one learns to condemn.

If a child lives with praise, one learns to appreciate.

If a child lives with hostility, one learns to fight.

If a child lives with tolerance, one learns to be patient.

If a child lives with ridicule, one learns to be shy.

If a child lives with encouragement, one learns confidence.

If a child lives with shame, one learns to feel guilty.

If a child lives with approval, one learn to like oneself.

If a child lives with fairness, one learns justice.

If a child lives with security, one learns to have faith.

If a child lives with acceptance and friendship, one learns to find love in this world.

~ Jaimini Sutram, Ch. 4, shloka 1

The children born to woman are her qualifications

and these are to be judged from the fifth houses from her Janma Lagna, Atmakaraka, Jupiterand the Sun.

~~BPHS Ch. 1, shloka 3

If the lords of lagna and putra bhava are in their own houses, or in an angle or trine,

one will enjoy happiness through children.

-- BPHS Ch. 16, shloka 1-3

Should the Lord of Putra (5th house) be combust or be with malefics and be weak,

there will be no children;

even if perhaps issues are obtained, they will soon quit this world.

~~Jaimini Sutram ((Trans. P.S. Sastri, Ranjan Publications, New Delhi, 1987)

Ch. 4, Shloka 40. the Atmakaraka and the lord of the Lagna

are also the significators of children.

Das comments on conditions = Jupiter conjoins the lord of the 5 or Jupiter is aspected by the lord of the 5 or the lord of the 5 is aspected by Jupiter or 5 is aspected by Jupiter:

"The birth of children is highly likely, especially during Jupiter periods."

~~ BPHS Ch. 30, Shloka 23-30 "Indications of Upa Padaa" :

"O Brahmin, all these effects be deduced from

  • the natal Lagna,

  • Lagna Padaa,

  • the 7th from Upa Padaa

  • And the Lords thereof.

So say Narada and others.


If Shani, Chandra and Budha are together in the 9th from one of the said places.

  • there will be no son at all,

while Surya, Guru and Rahu so placed

  • will give a number of sons.

Chandra so placed

  • will give a son,

while a mixture of Graha

  • will delay the obtainment of a son.

The son, caused by the Yuti of Surya, Guru and Rahu,

  • will be strong, valorous, greatly successful and will destroy enemies.

If Mangala and Shani are in the said 9th,

  • there will be no son, or a son will be obtained by adoption, or brother's son will come in adoption.

In all these cases

  • odd Rasi will yield many sons,

  • while even Rasi will cause only a few.

O Brahmin, if Simha happens to be Upa Padaa and receives a Drishti from Chandra,

  • there will be a limited number of children.

Similarly Kanya

  • will cause many daughters."

Parental Relationship with Children

Material-social results for children should be judged from the lord of the 5th-from parent's radix lagna and from character of Guru. Material-social results include a child's power to successfully incarnate, their health and profession, their wealth and their marriages etc.

  • Naturally if the child has two active parents, there can be two different parental relationships with the child and two different (ideally compatible) views and expectations regarding the character of the child and what style of trait development most benefits the child.

Emotional results particularly the happiness of the child-parent relationship and general fortune of the child should be judged from the parent's Chandra lagna.

  • Note the graha which rules the 5th-from-Chandra =the first child,
  • the graha which rules the 7th-from-Chandra = the second child,
  • the graha which rules the 9th-from-Chandra = the third child.

Rashi of Parent's Chandra

Example Public-Figure Parent

1st child = Lord of 5th-from-parent's Chandra

Generalized character of the child and Parent's Emotional perception of the child

Parent's Chandra in Mesha

Surya lord of Simha

Self-confidence, personal sovereignty, politics and theatre = important. Child has a vivid, attention-getting personality + strong bond with the father and celebrities or royals. Males in general are beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Vrishabha

Budha lord of Kanya

Logical argumentation skills = important. Child has an articulate, service-oriented personality + strong bond with the child's mother's relatives. Physicians and social workers = beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Mithuna

Shukra lord of Thula

Diplomatic relationships + balanced designs = important. Child has a pleasant, aesthetic personality + strong bond with sisters, aunts, grandmother. Sisters and feminine friends in general are beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Karkata

Mangala lord of Vrischika

Investigative skills and competitive advantage = important. Child has an inquisitive, penetrating, controlling personality + a strong bond with brothers. Military officers + money-changers = beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Simha

Guru lord of Dhanusha

Humanistic philosophy and global viewpoint = important. Child has a generous, inclusive personality + strong bond with teachers. Religious teachers and priests are beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Kanya

Shani lord of Makara

Practical life behaviors and lawfulness = important. Child has a mature, pragmatic personality + strong bond with authority figures. Government officials and bosses are beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Thula

Shani lord of Kumbha

Social networking and rule systems = important. Child has an experimental, data-gathering personality + strong bond with elder friends. Scientists and social visionaries = beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Vrischika

Guru lord of Meena

Humanistic philosophy and clairsentient, multi-worlds viewpoint = important. Child has a generous, inclusive personality + strong bond with all beings. Spirit guides are beneficial for this child; psychic disturbance is possible.

Parent's Chandra in Dhanusha

Mangala lord of Mesha

Competitive performance and winning = important. Child has a sporting, energetic, warrior's personality + a strong bond with brothers. Brothers and male friends in general are beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Makara

Shukra lord of Vrishabha

Pleasurable relationships + architectural design = important. Child has a pleasant, sensual personality + strong bond with sisters, aunts, grandmothers, female bosses. Sisters and female authorities in general are beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Kumbha

Budha lord of Mithuna

Accounting and conversation skills = important. Child has an articulate personality plus a strong bond with siblings, cousins, and friends. Neighbors and extended family = beneficial for this child.

Parent's Chandra in Meena

Chandra lord of Karkata

Family, stability, and security = important. Child has a strong sense of place + strong bond with the parents. Maternal females in general are beneficial for this child.

Timing of Birth of Children

As a rule the first child will be born during the Vimshottari dasha periods of:

  1. L-5, L-9, or L-1

  2. Guru

  3. 5th-from-Guru

  4. Rahu/Ketu

    • if Rahu-Ketu occupy house-5 or house-9

    • if Rahu-Ketu occupy the rashi of: L-5+ L-9, or Guru

Typically conception of the first live child will occur during a key transit of gochara Rahu-Ketu which contacts:

  1. Axis of natal Rahu-Ketu

  2. Axis of natal Moon,

  3. Axis of lagna

  4. Axis of navamsha or Saptamsha lagna or nodes.

After the first child has been born, a second child can occur under a variety of subsequent  child-positive bhukti peridos. (The rules are a little more flexible for subsequent children.)

  • Long-lasting bhukti periods of Guru or L-5 or L-9 (or Rahu/Ketu) can potentially produce two or more children within their span.

  • If the subsequent bhukti is child-positive in any way, more children may easily be forthcoming. E.g. if bhukti-pat is L-5 or L-9 from important lagna's such as radix lagna, radix Chandra, even the radix lagnesha or the current mahadasha-pati, additional children come easily.

One way to determine if additional children will arrive, is to examine the radix of child-1.

  • If the house-3 of child-1's radix receives drishti from Mangala or Budha, there will very likely be siblings for child-1.

  • Other less potent but favorable significations for siblings include favorable drishti upon L-3, and other sibling-karaka relationships such as a planet in parivartamsha yoga with L-3 or 3rd-from-Chandra.

Miscarriage and Therapeutic Abortion

 

Vimshottari periods of radix L-6 = 2nd-from-5th and (less often) L-11 = 7th-from-5th = both natural abortion (miscarriage) or therapeutic abortion (medically assisted) .

As lords of 2nd-from-putra bhava and 7th-from-putra-bhavaL-6+L-11 are the temporal karakas for death of children.

To be a strong karaka for Natural Abortion or Therapeutic Abortion, the graha who is radix L-6+L-11 should have some additional malefic qualities.

This malefic graha should be either:

  • A natural malefic (Kuja, Shani)

  • Or dominated in degree by L-6+ L-8, or L-12

Rahu = karaka for sudden or wild changes.

Periods of Rahu can amplify the experience of either natural abortion (miscarriage) or therapeutic abortion (medically assisted)

  • if Rahu lord = L-6+ L-8+ L-3 (8th-from-8th) or L-11.

~~ BPHS Ch. 30, Shloka 32 "Indications of Upa Padaa" :

"If Shukra is in the 3rd, or the 11th from Lagna Pada,

  • there would have been an abortion to the mother earlier.

Same is the effect,

  • if Shukra is in the 8th from natal Lagna,

  • or from Lagna Padaa."

~~ H. H. Dalai Lama

Compassion is the desire for another to have freedom from suffering.

Love is the desire for another to have happiness.

Adoption

If Putra's lord is in Ari Bhava,

the native will obtain such sons who will be equal to his enemies,

or will lose them,

or will acquire an adopted or purchased son.

- BPHS, Ch 24, shloka 54


If Mangala and Shani are in the 9th,

there will be no son, or a son will be obtained by adoption,

or brother's son will come in adoption.

~~ BPHS Ch. 30, Shloka 23-30 "Indications of Upa Padaa"

  • According to Das, putra bhava = rashi of Budha or rashi of Shani; L-5 in 1 or L-1 in 5 =
If
  • The lord of the 1 is in 5
  • or the lord of the 5 is in 1
  • or 5 is aspected by Saturn
  • or Gemini is in 5
  • or Virgo is in 5
  • or Aquarius is in 5
  • or Capricorn is in 5
You may have an adopted child, or may look after the children of others. "

Timing of Adoption

Timing of adoption of children, whether they are adopted at birth or school age or even nearly adults, will be identical with timing of arrival of natural children.

That is, adoption of the first child occurs during periods of:

  • Guru

  • L-1+ L-5 or L-9

  • Rahu/Ketu - especially if Rahu gives the effect of Guru+ L-1+ L-5 or L-9.

    • Rahu is commonly implicated in trans-national or cross-cultural adoptions.

  • gochara Rahu-Ketu will normally be transiting the adoptive mother's radix Moon, radix nodal axis, or radix lagna - at least for the arrival of the first child

See this example of vimshottari dasha timing of Acquisition of three school-age stepchildren. In this case, the stepmother's child-karaka planets give the expected timing, even for late-in-life acquisition of older stepchildren.

Finding children in the mother's nativity:

Judge the material attributes of the child such as their bodily appearance, their wealth, their spouse, their profession etc.from the mother's radix lagna.

Judge the quality of the psycho-emotional relationship between the mother and each child by measuring from Chandra lagna. (Usually the psycho-emotional relationship is much more potent than the physical.)

  1. 5th from Chandra = child 1

  2. 7th from Chandra = child 2

  3. 9th from Chandra = child 3

  4. 11th from Chandra = child 4

  5. Chandra lagna = child 5

  6. 3rd from Chandra = child 6

  7. To find additional children, count three houses forward from previous child

Additional considerations for locating children in the parental nativity:

  • Even those pregnancies which ended as stillbirths, or either natural or therapeutic abortions, may be important to recognize in birth order counting. But not always.Much depends on mother's psychic attachment to terminated pregnancies - whether an unborn child was named, talked to, etc. More details at putra bhava page.

  • As a general rule, incomplete pregnancies often "try again" and the being who was not quite properly adjusted to the first attempt often succeeds in taking an incarnation with the same mother during a subsequent pregnancy.

  • For a fuller profile of each child, also identify each child by counting houses from Chandra-lagna.

  • Palm lines outside edge of hand under little finger will confirm number of children

Judging the character of a child from the mother's chart
  • find the bhava of the child in question, within the mother's radix chart

  • e.g., first child = bhava-5, 2nd child = bhava-7, 3rd child = bhava-9, etc.

  • locate the lord of that domain. For example if the lord of bhava-5 = Guru, then find Guru in the mother's radix

  • use the lord of the domain as the lagna from which to judge the affairs of the child

  • e.g., if the lord of bhava-7 for the 2nd child is Shani, then the child has effectively Shani in lagna. S/he is hardworking, sensitive to the common folk, given adult responsibilities at a young age, etc. Much work is expected of this child with relatively little praise or attention (unless Guru or Shukra also cast drishti upon Shani).

  • Proceed from this lagna to evaluate the child's wealth, small groups, home life, marriage, parents, career, and end of life. E.g., 2nd-from-this lagna will show the child's overall accumulated wealth, 11th-from this lagna shows their large groups associations and income, 7th-from this lagna shows their marriage, 4th-from is their parents, 6th-from their health, and so forth.

  • There should be significant correlation between parents and children's radix and navamsha charts, such that the mother should be recognizable in the 4th-from this child lagna, siblings in 3rd-from, etc.

  • These judgments should be made from the radix chart of the natural or adoptive parents, or from the siblings, of the child.

Aputra Yoga

  • L-5 occupies a dushtamsha (bhava-6, bhava-8, or bhava-12)

Certain planetary combinations are distinctively inauspicious for producing children. These combinations typically result in the creative energies being diverted into non-procreative creativity - e.g., the native may produce great works of art, theatrical performance, spiritual achievement, leadership service, or other glorious outcome. With Aputra yoga, the prognosis for fleshly children is dim.

Aputra yoga is not guaranteed to prevent children, however. Very favorable Guru who casts drishti to bhava-5 or bhava-9, combined with a period of Guru located in an angle or trine from the Mahadasha pati, can indeed produce a child, even with Aputra yoga existing in the nativity. This is usually a "surprise" child born to a long-infertile couple, or a couple who have been told that they cannot conceive, who have typically resigned themselves to childlessness.

Not only can a strong Guru overcome Aputra Yoga, but also L-5 in 6 is known to create a healthy child who develops animosity toward the native, and if the graha are acquisitive+ L-5 in 6 can indicate a "purchased" or adopted child.

In the old days in European culture (and still common enough in villages in traditional lands) a family without sons could pay to acquire a child. The acquired son might work as an indentured servant or trade apprentice (6) but such a child after their training was completed could also legally inherit their custodian's business..

- BPHS, Ch 24, shloka 54

"If Putra's lord is in Ari Bhava, the native will obtain such sons who will be equal to his enemies, or will lose them, or will acquire an adopted or purchased son."

Remedies:

Gemstones for Guru and the L-5 may be helpful. Seva offered in settings with many small children and in service to mothers of small children may also be quite helpful.

Anapatya Yoga

to deny children, all the following graha must be weak:

  • Guru, the lagnesha, lord of putra bhava, and lord of yuvati bhava

"Anapatya" is an excellent yoga for celibate religious practice in a quiet monastic community. The native is blessed with a natural humility. Vocationally, one may be called into any form of selfless service except teaching. (Teaching requires a strong Guru and a fairly strong L-1 too.)

Parents' charts showing birth/adoption timing

Example Children's Nativities (coming soon)

  • Chart 20:Boy rejected by natural mother, rejected by foster mother, rejected by adoptive parents / returned to the state
  • Chart 21: Boy whose mother died just before his 8th birthday
  • Chart 22: Girl adopted at birth

Key Jyotisha Factors for Predicting birth or adoption of Children:

Auspicious for Reproduction/Adoption

Inauspicious for Reproduction/Adoption

  • Guru/Chandra in houses 6/8- or in mutual 6/8 angle - suggests emotional blockage, scarcity thinking

  • 5th lord is well-aspected and located in an auspicious bhava

  • Saturn or Mars aspects to putra-bhava, L5, Guru, or 5th-from-Chandra suggest material blockage

  • Rahu drishti to putra-bhava, L5, Guru, or 5th-from-Chandra suggest psychic blockage

  • 9th lord is well-aspected and located in an auspicious bhava

  • Guru occupying putra bhava sends procreative energies into non-fleshly channels such as art and teaching

  • 5th-from-Chandraand 9th-from-Chandrareceive favorable drishti

  • Mars in putra bhava suggests miscarriages

  • The house which is 5th-from- Guru is well-aspected

  • Guru occupying putra bhava sends procreative energies into non-fleshly channels such as art and teaching

  • Guru drishti to putra bhava, L5, or Chandra

  • Surya in particular has very hot male energy. A strong Surya in 5 or 9 often burns up the wet fertility needed for children -- but makes a wonderful teacher or coach!

  • L-5 and L-9 must be harmoniously related for matters of children to fructify properly. If not there may be hindrances in child-getting.

   

A few Parashari Rules regarding Children

Guru

  • Jupiter is the natural significator or "Karaka" for children .

  • Parashara says, "Any aspect from Jupiter guarantees the presence of children."

    • "... If Jupiter be in the ascendant , she is happy, wealthy, and has children." Brihat Parashara Hora Shastra Ch. 80, shloka. 37

  • If Jupiter the karaka for abundance should occupy -- rather than aspect -- the 5th house , he will generally restrict the number of children.( karako bhavo nashto)

  • favorable conditions in the house which is 5th from Guru can greatly assist even an unfavorable putra bhava

Chandra

  • Moon occupying or casting drishti upon house-5 is favorable

  • Moon receiving drishti from Guru favors reproduction fertility

  • Moon in parivartamsha yoga yuti L-5 = fertile

Saturn,

Sun,

Mars,

Mercury,

Ketu

When impotent or malefic rays touch the child-karaka, reproduction is negatively affected.

  • Saturn, Mercury, and Ketu Are impotent planets .- BPHS


A woman will be barren , if in her birth chart, The Moon and Venus be associated with Saturn or Mars , and the 5th house be occupied or aspected by a malefic ." --- BPHS Ch. 80, shloka 34

8th house - conception, mysteries

Malefic or impotent planets in randhra bhava can mar conception.

L-8 in 8th house:

  • "If 8th house is Leo or Cancer, and the Sun and Moon be both placed there, the woman will be barren (bandhyaa).

  • If 8th house be Gemini, Virgo, or Cancer, and Mercury and Moon be posited there, the female native will have Only one child. (phaala bandhyaa)."

--- BPHS Ch. 80, shloka 38

[BPL note: "bandhya" = "closed"; "phala bandhya" = "closed with one fruit"]


BPHS Ch. 80, shloka 41 -

Mars in 8th house:

"The woman concerned will not be able to conceive if Jupiter and Venus be associated with Mars in the 8th house, or Mars be with Saturn in the 8th house. "

Rahu/Ketu

  • If Rahu occupies putra bhavain the rashi of impotent Budha (Mithuna, Kanya) Rahu denies children.

  • However in other signs - or even in the impotent signs if Guru is strong - Rahu in 5th provides highly unusual children.

    • If Rahu occupies putra bhava and does NOT occupy a Saturn-owned Navamsha, Bahaputra Yoga arises, which can cause the native to produce many children.

  • Ketu in putra bhavais fertile if L-5 and Guru are strong, but there will be some peculiar factor which creates physical or emotional distance. (Particularly affects the first child).

  • Rahu children are challenged by snake-like things: low people, snake bites, drug needles, mood swings; and a craving for sudden, chaotic, exciting experiences.They cross cultural boundaries and break taboos, while getting plenty of attention. They may have an exceptional, exotic appearance.

  • Ketu children are challenged by detachment, often living in an imaginative world. Sometimes they are spiritually advanced, early meditators. Sometimes they are just spacey or have slow response time. Apathy is their demon.


    Rahu in 5th house is generally harmful to children. Will deny children if Rahu occupies a barren rashi - those ruled by Budha and Shani.

    In all other signs the children will often develop willfulness, have social-adaptive blockages, and may exhibit tantrik tendencies to "push the envelope" which marginalize the children socially. However usually there are compensating effects from other good planets.


    It is only in the Navamsha of Saturn that Rahu's disposition is held to be harmful.

-- B. V. Raman, Three Hundred Important Combinations .p.211, Bahuputra Yoga

( BPL: that is, if Rahu occupies putra bhava and Rahu *also* occupies Capricorn or Aquarius navamsha, then it is possible to see extreme results for children.)

drishti to putra and dharma sthana

  • Aspects to 5th and 9th rashi houses will influence overall fertility and child-raising experience.

  • E.g., drishti from Shani to house 5 or 9 will introduce some degree of servitude, scarcity, and tiredness to the overall child raising experience.

  • by contrast, Drishti of Guru to house 5 or 9 will introduce some degree of abundance, confidence, and wisdom to the overall child raising experience.

L-5 and L-9

  • Lords can hasten, expand, delay, or prevent children. When Saturn rules the 5th house, children are delayed. Not necessarily prevented - but always delayed.

  • For ease with childbirth and children+ L-5 and L-9 should occupy a house which is a favorable distance from their own houses

    • i.e., L-5should *not* be 6th, 8th, or 12th from the 5th

    • i.e., L-9 should *not* be 6th, 8th, or 12th from the 9th


    BPHS, Ch 24, shloka 54: If Putra's lord is in Ari Bhava, the native will obtain such sons who will be equal to his enemies, or will lose them, or will acquire an adopted or purchased son.

Dasha / bhukti

Good bhukti lords are very favorable for pregnancy and childbirth:

  • bhukti of Jupiter

  • bhukti of L-5 and L-9

Children produced are often fleshly but may also be literary, adoptive, or other works of creative genius.

Palm lines

  • deep vertical lines "child lines," which "grow" out of deep horizontal lines "relationship lines," on the outside edge of each palm, under the little finger.

  • In general, judge by the writing (material life) hand -- but intuitive women frequently show clearer lines on their left (imaginative life) hands.

  • Although men's hands often display clear marriage lines, it is rare to see clear child lines on men until after the children are born.

 

"Motherhood has meant that I have written four fewer books, but I know much more about life. "

-- A. S. Byatt

Q: Hello Barbara,

I have been feasting on your jyotish website. Oh my, it's a treasure indeed. Studying Jyotish has helped me very much the past few months.

I am addressing various upheavals and troubles now due to a divorce and death of my eldest adult child. My question for you is about abortion. Maybe it's the stress of this divorce and all the changes in my life now, but I have been deeply thinking about an abortion I had as a very young woman, in a situation where I wanted the child but the child's father was hostile to the pregnancy (and to me). So, two of my children are dead now. .I am feeling so much grief.

Through the years I have gone through the suffering of regretting that abortion. I have come to a degree of self forgiveness, and forgiveness of the father, who pushed me into that decision.

But in reading about karma, I do wonder where I stand. Can you say anything about the jyotish view of abortion? It is so prevalent now. What does it portend for humanity? What, except for suffering the regret, and sharing one's story, can a soul do? Why is it even prevalent in India now?

I know you are busy, and hope when you have time you can answer my question. Thanks for writing up the website.I love your mind!

A: Namaste,

Thanks very much for your compliments on the website and thanks for your reflections.

I'm not sure what it "portends for humanity" but from a Jyotisha perspective, therapeutic abortion is no different than natural miscarriage. Abortion has been practiced in all cultures from time immemorial. Sometimes less, sometimes more - but as a social practice it is always present.

Jyotisha simply records and predicts events. The most accurate predictor of miscarriage regardless of the intention behind it is Mangala in association with putra bhava, bhava-5. Mangala in 5 in a rashi of Shani, for example, is a classic predictor for pregnancies which do not end in live births. By contrast, Guru drishti to bhava-5 will nearly guarantee at least one live child, even for a woman who has a tragic history of child-loss.

From a Jyotisha point of view, the mother has karma, and the fetus has karma. Karma is the "work" required to transform ignorance into wisdom.

If it is thechild's karma (work) to function in a fetal environment for a few days or months then abandon that form and move to some other form (such as a dream form, on the astral plane) then that is simply what the script says. As a general rule, even if deflected by intentional abortion and even multiple abortions, a motivated child-spirit will keep coming back.The mother-child bond is very intense and valuable. Spirits will work hard to gain entry, even when material circumstances on earth seem hostile to their birth. Therefore one of your later live children was quite likely a second attempt by the same spirit who had the abortion karma inyour previous pregnancy.

Jyotisha does not ascribe praise or blame to actions.Individual Jyotisha writers however do impose their own judgments on human actions. I was just reading BV Raman the other day. He was going on about Sasya Yoga for Saturn and how most of the hideous profits made in India by those who ruthlessly exploit the lower classes must be made by men with Sasya yoga. He is probably right about the correspondence between those actions and that yoga; he is also not afraid to judge these humanactions as immoral.

My own view values compassion more than judgment, although I sometimes slip into judgment myself. I suspect everyone does : )

The main complication with abortion from my perspective is actually not the karma of abortion itself (it is simply an action in a script) but rather the psychic burden of guilt that a person may accept if Shani (human law judgment) is stronger than Surya ((divine law confidence). Guilt is crippling; it is a marvelous tool of institutional control (Shani); and it is completely unnecessary. A big part of 'enlightenment' is'disemburdenment' from the dual weights (Shani) of guilt and grief.

Compassion for self (Surya) may be the next step toward building enough confidence (Surya) to get off the torture-wheel of prescribed guilt.

Best wishes for your success in Jyotisha studies,

Sincerely,

Barbara Pijan Lama, Jyotisha

 

One young academically excellent person went to apply for a managerial position in a big company. He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview, made the last decision. The director discovered from the CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the postgraduate research, never had a year when he did not score.

  • The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarships in school?" the youth answered "none".

  • The director asked, “Was it your father who paid for your school fees?"

  • The youth answered, "My father passed away when I was one year old, it was my mother who paid for my school fees.

The director asked, “Where did your mother work?" The youth answered, "My mother worked as clothes cleaner. The director requested the youth to show his hands. The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.

The director asked, “Have you ever helped your mother wash the clothes before?" The youth answered, "Never, my mother always wanted me to study and read more books. Furthermore, my mother can wash clothes faster than me.

  • The director said, "I have a request. When you go back today, go and clean your mother's hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.*

The youth felt that his chance of landing the job was high. When he went back, he happily requested his mother to let him clean her hands. His mother felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings, she showed her hands to the kid. The youth cleaned his mother's hands slowly. His tear fell as he did that. It was the first time he noticed that his mother's hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in her hands. Some bruises were so painful that his mother shivered when they were cleaned with water. This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fee. The bruises in the mother's hands were the price that the mother had to pay for his graduation, academic excellence and his future.

After finishing the cleaning of his mother hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for his mother. That night, mother and son talked for a very long time. Next morning, the youth went to the director's office. The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, asked: " Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

  • The youth answered, "I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes'

  • The Director asked, “please tell me your feelings."

The youth said, Number 1, I know now what is appreciation. Without my mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, by working together and helping my mother, only I now realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done. Number 3, I have come to appreciate the importance and value of family relationship.

The director said, “This is what I am looking for to be my manager. I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life. You are hired.

Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the respect of his subordinates. Every employee worked diligently and as a team. The company's performance improved tremendously.


  • A child, who has been protected and habitually given whatever he wanted, would develop "entitlement mentality" and would always put himself first.

He would be ignorant of his parent's efforts. When he starts work, he assumes that every person must listen to him, and when he becomes a manager, he would never know the sufferings of his employees and would always blame others. For this kind of people, who may be good academically, may be successful for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement. He will grumble and be full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this kind of protective parents, are we really showing love or are we destroying the kid instead?*

 

Kindergarten Boots

Did you hear about the teacher who was helping one of her kindergarten students put his boots on?

He asked for help and she could see why. With her pulling and him pushing, the boots still didn't want to go on. When the second boot was on, she had worked up a sweat.

She almost whimpered when the little boy said, "Teacher they're on the wrong feet." She looked, and sure enough, they were.

It wasn't any easier pulling the boots off than it was putting them on. She managed to keep her cool as together they worked to get the boots back on - this time on the right feet.

He then announced, "These aren't my boots." She bit her tongue rather than get right in his face and scream, "Why didn't you say so?" like she wanted to.

Once again she struggled to help him pull the ill-fitting boots off.

He then said, "They're my brother's boots. My Mom made me wear them."

She didn't know if she should laugh or cry. She mustered up the grace to wrestle the boots on his feet again.

She said, "Now, where are your mittens?"

He said, "I stuffed them in the toes of my boots..."

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