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Who Will I Marry?

Lord of Chandra's Nakshatra

A Leading Indicator of Partnership Compatibility


Attributes of the First Spouse, judged from lagna of house-7

Moon Lords are Identical = High Compatibility


Psychic and Exotic - success depends on lords of the nodes

Rahu + Ketu


Easier Combinations: Graha = mutual friends

Surya + Guru

Surya + Mangala

Shukra + Shani

Guru + Kuja


Neutral, neither friendly nor adversarial

Shani + Budha

Surya + Budha - basically friendly; Surya is usually the stronger partner

Shukra + Budha - basically friendly; Shukra is the more attractive partner


Uneasy Truce

Shukra + Kuja

Shukra + Guru

Guru sees Shukra as an enemy; Shukra is neutral toward Guru. The Guru native may perceive the Shukra-ruled Chandra native as a workaholic [Bharani ] or an alcoholic lush [Purvaphalguni] or otherwise excessively materialistic. There is abundance in the partnership.

Mangala + Ketu

Mangala + Budha -

Mangala see Budha as an enemy; Budha is neutral toward Mangala. The Mangala-ruled native may perceive the mentality of the Budha-ruled native to be sneaky [Azlesa] or arrogant [Jyestha] or otherwise subversive. The Budha native carries on talking-planning-writing, regardless.

Surya + Ketu

Surya = dominating; Ketu = passively absorptive


Chandra has no planetary enemies, therefore the Moon-ruled Nakshatra typically have no serious problems relating to others, at least on an intuitively responsive or emotionally instinctive level, in intimate relationships.

Difficult combinations = Lords of the two Nakshatra are mutual enemies:

Surya + Shukra = divine vs. human

Mangala + Rahu = passionate and violent

Shani + Rahu = de factoenemies

Shukra + Ketu = de factoenemies

The Shukra-ruled native will dominate, the Ketu-ruled native passively absorbs


Maximally difficult lunar Nakshatra combinations:

Surya-Shani = mutual enemies

  1. Krittika Chandra vs. Pushya Chandra
  2. Krittika Chandra vs. Anuradha Chandra
  3. Krittika Chandra vs. Uttarabhadrapada Chandra
  4. Uttaraphalguni Chandra vs. Pushya Chandra
  5. Uttaraphalguni Chandra vs. Anuradha Chandra
  6. Uttaraphalguni Chandra vs. Uttarabhadrapada Chandra
  7. UttarazadhaChandra vs. Pushya Chandra
  8. UttarazadhaChandra vs. Anuradha Chandra
  9. UttarazadhaChandra vs. Uttarabhadrapada Chandra

Surya-Shani relationships = Adversarial

  • Natives born in a Chandra Nakshatra of Surya will tend to have an intuitive personality response to emotional engagement that is flashy, brilliant, dominating, hot, authoritative, self-assertive, regal, entitled, and highly self-confident.
  • Surya demands Attention and Applause.
  • Natives born in a Chandra Nakshatra of Shani will tend to have an intuitive personality response to emotional engagement that is resistant to movement, restraining, conservative, self-protective, fearful of change, scientific, lawful, cold, and slow.
  • Shani requires Conformity, Safety and Structure.

In a nutshell, the Surya-native, in the context of emotional relationships such as parenting, partnering, nurturing, healing, and soothing (Chandra) will tend to try to dominate with positive enthusiasm and self-righteous assertions.

If Surya is, overall, an empowered graha in the nativity, one with Krittika Chandra, Uttaraphalguni Chandra and UttarazadhaChandra will assert vigorously in the "alpha" style.

The Shani-native will consistently resiSaint The Shani native over time "digs in" to a safe position and may be unable to change. The Surya person gets more and more frustrated, has outbursts (solar flares),

If Shani is, overall, an empowered graha in the nativity, one with Pushya Chandra, Anuradha Chandra and Uttarabhadrapada Chandra will at first take the path of least resistance, but as Surya continues His campaign of self-righteous idealism, Shani will more and more staunchly enforce the Law.

Prognosis for a successful Shani-Surya partnership

The Surya-Shani relationship can work if and only if the partners assume fixed roles. The Surya partner has an emotional need for uniqueness and kingship, and that need will be asserted upon the Shani partner who needs to assume the role of the subservient peasantry or the vast undifferentiated working class.

There is some advantage when the Surya partner is male and the Shani partner is female.

Unless the Surya partner is highly conscious, Krittika Chandra, Uttaraphalguni Chandra or UttarazadhaChandra all tend toward solipsistic criticism of the perceived inglorious or ignorant traits of plebian Shani; therefore the native with Pushya Chandra, Anuradha Chandra or Uttara bhadrapada Chandra would need to have the tolerance or fortitude to withstand Surya's egoistic onslaughts.

Much depends on the condition of Surya and Shani within the two partner's overall nativities, and other factors such as the condition of the natal Moon will also very much influence the daily emotional give-and-take between partners. However the Moon's Nakshatra lord does establish a deep instinctive and reactive emotional framework of needs and expectations which is unlikely to change fundamentally over the course of a lifetime.

Therefore any partnership between these two adversarial groups of Nakshatra should be carefully thought out and legislated in the interest of justice, prevention of oppression (from Surya upon Shani) and good government.


Planet

Lord of Nakshatra

Friends

Enemies

Neutrals

Ravi

Krittika

Uttaraphalguni

Uttarazadha

Chandra, Mangala, Guru

Shani, Shukra [Rahu]

Budha

Chandra

Rohini Hasta Shravana

Ravi, Budha

None [Rahu]

All except Ravi and Budha

Mangala

Mrigashira Chitra Dhanishtha

Ravi, Chandra, Guru

Budha

Shukra, Shani

Budha

Azlesa Jyestha Revati

Surya, Shukra

Chandra

Mangala, Guru, Shani

Guru

Punarvasu Vishakha Purva bhadrapada

Ravi, Chandra, Mangala

Budha, Shukra

Shani

Shukra

Bharani Purvaphalguni Purvashadha

Budha, Shani

Surya, Chandra

Mangala, Guru

Shani

Pushya Anuradha Uttara bhadrapada

Budha, Shukra

Ravi, Chandra, Mangala [Rahu]

Guru

Rahu

Arudra Swati Shatabisha/ Shatataraka

Guru, Shukra, Shani

Surya, Chandra

Budha, Mangala

Ketu

Asvini

Magha

Mula

Mangala, Shukra, Shani

Surya, Chandra

Budha, Guru


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