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Who Will I Marry?

D-9 Navamsha

Dynamics of Marriage

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Helen of Troy by Evelyn de Morgan (England) 1898

Profiling marriage compatibility (not just timing) through D-1 to D-9 links

  • D-9 shows the spiritual opportunity in marriage

  • Marriage relationships are pre-arranged

  • D-9 marriage view vs. D-1 marriage view

  • D-1 vs. D-9 view: Public-Private variance

  • When D-1 spousal indicators contradict D-9 spousal profile:

  • Radix-navamsha correspondence patterns in long-lasting marriages

  • Marriage karma seen in D-9

  • Inherently problematic configurations in D-9

  • "Marriage Is" - fundamental relationship behavior judged from D-9 lagna

  • Finding Compatibility factors vs. making a prediction of Marriage


  • Navamsha

    • Varga or "divisional" charts show the resultsof any undertaking in life. Varga charts do not determine the course of prediction. Varga charts serve to confirm predictions. Varga charts can also be used to develop a more detailed narrative of the relationship in question.

    • Navamsha (9th-divisional, 9th-harmonic, D-9) shows the "fruits of Dharma."

    • Presuming an accurate birth time, navamsha (D-9) must be consulted side-by-side with radix (D-1) chart, to evaluate the native 's "dormant" traits that will be brought out only through interactions with intimate partners. (The intimate partner for those under celibate vows becomes the ishtadevata.)

    • Accurate predictions require coordinated action between the native 's material life (D-1) and their psycho-spiritual life (D-9) .

      • Sibling relationships, look closely radix bhava-3 and L-3 and Mangala-Budha, then examine the D-3 lagna and role of radix L-3 within the dreshkhamsha [drekkana] - D-3.

      • Parental relationships, look closely radix bhava-4 (childhood home, parents as a unit) and L-4 and Surya-Chandra, then examine the D-12 lagna and role of radix L-4 within the dwadashamsha - D-12.

      • Relationships with one's children, look closely radix bhava-5/9 (children/grandchildren) and L-5/9 and Brihaspati, then examine the D-7 lagna and role of radix L-5/9 within the saptamsha - D-7.

      • Marriage relationships, look closely radix bhava-7 and L-7 and Shukra (male's partner) and Guru (female's partner), then examine the D-9 lagna (self), D-9 seventh rashi (partner) and all of the drishti and angles within the D-9.


    Marriage relationships are pre-arranged

    • All of these core life relationships are "pre-arranged"on the astral plane, far in advance of the participants taking birth on the earth plane.

    • These core relationships are established through patterns of "matching energy" whereby the karmic programming (subconscious expectations) of one partner creates a match with the same projections of the other partner.

    • Marriage relationships create the structure for the most important and demanding spiritual work in this lifetime. That is why the "marriage" varga is also considered a deeply spiritual "ninth harmonic".

    • Below the gross material level, marriage relationships are extremely complex and subtle. As most long-married couples will confirm, after the initial sexual enthusiasm has burned off, couples become so psychically merged that they do not even really "see" each other on the material plane.

    It is easy to be lulled into a comfortable pattern of mutually satisfied expectations, raising children and satisfying parents' need for social respect. When the mutual expectations are easy and positive in this benefic-ruled style, the couple will have no motivation to seek astrological advice!

    • The marriage relationship in this case may be entirely superficial (a "time off" incarnation!) but if the marriage is relatively free of conflict, look to the navamsha for benefic effects.


    D-9 shows the spiritual opportunity in marriage

    • Marriage provides the opportunity - for those who can grasp it - to observe oneself in the process of projecting one's own internally held subconscious imagery upon the surface of another person.

    • One's spouse, whose response patterns are represented in the mirror of the navamsha, is rarely "at fault" in a marriage conflict. Rather, one's own negative expectations can literally force negative results from an inherently neutral situation.

    • The intelligent person responds to marriage conflict by looking closely at one's own navamsha, in order to determine which expectations one is projecting.

    • Then that intelligent person takes steps to bring these ancient, karmic conflicts (often ported directly from one's own parents) into the light of day, and negotiate a compassionate solution.


    D-9 marriage view vs D-1 marriage view

    • Basic material results of marriage, such as accumulation of joint monies (bhava-8) production of children (bhava-5) or conditions of the dwelling house (bhava-4), can be seen through the D-1 radix.

    • However the essential psychological dynamic between the partners, which is caused by (largely subconscious) expectations and reactions from childhood and past lives, habits of repeating the dynamic of one's own parents' marriage, and other embedded psycho-spiritual imagery

    • The Jyotishi's time spent analyzing the native 's navamsha will be repaid many times over.


    Profiling marriage compatibility (not just timing) through radix-navamsha links:

    The items should match to secure a committed marriage (not effortless, but committed!):

    • your navamsha and the partner's radix

    • The partner's navamsha and your radix

    • your navamsha and the partner's navamsha

    • Moon linkage plays a major role

    D-1-to-D-9 links show the issues on which you two partners are spiritually working together. Traits which are dormant or subordinate in partner-1 will be alive or dominant in partner-2. Thus each partner "mirrors" the other's arising consciousness, and facilitates spiritual growth by evoking astral imagery into real world action.

    The navamsha reveals traits, desires, hopes, dreams, fears, etc. which are dormant but trying to rise into consciousness in your life.You find the partner who is already acting these out in the material world. You are intensely attracted to this person; they are everything you admire, everything you crave, everything you want to be. This person completes you; expresses you; forms your "other half".

    Naturally, you marry them!

    Examine each house in Navamsha from the appropriate partner lagna to know the level of your soul that is just now moving from subconscious to conscious. We usually need partners to bring out this new personality growth in us. (Even if that partner is the ishtadevata.)

    • navamsha 7th house represents first marriage spouse; navamsha lagna is you

    • navamsha 2nd house represents second marriage spouse; navamsha 8th house is you

    • navamsha 9th house represents third marriage spouse; navamsha 3rd house is you


    Inherently problematic configurations in navamsha:

    • dushthamsha lords in the first or seventh navamsha

      • graha which govern the 6th, 8th, or 12th bhava within the navamsha

      • to a lesser extent, graha which govern the 6th, 8th, or 12th bhava within the radix

    • graha in navamsha lagna which are unwelcome in the natural house = swabhava ofsexual, dynamic, direct-action Mangala. In general this means obstacle-maker Shani, or Rahu in a rashi of Shani.

    • neechcha graha in the first or seventh navamsha

    • upachaya lords (3, 6, 10, 11) in navamsha as well as in radix, will give better results with social and emotional maturity. E.g., Shani in


    When D-1 spousal indicators contradict D-9 spousal profile:

    • Normally there is reasonable concurrence in the two perspectives given by D-1 and D-9.

    • However, when the navamsha and radix spousal indications are contradictory, there is usually to be found a public/private split in which things look on the outside (D-1) much different than they feel on the inside (d-9) in the marriage.

    • An important key to understanding the difference between "public" and "private" dimensions of marriage is to compare the character of the 1/7 axis in radix vs. navamsha.


    D-1 vs. D-9 view: Public-Private variance


    Example 3: from marriage chart 4

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    This female's marriage has lasted for more than 25 years, through several cycles of upheaval, and much mutual happiness. She is an architectural designer and she has excellent negotiating skills (thula = 10th navamsha = design).


    VargottamshaL-7+L-10 Guru, the karaka for a woman's first husband, is not ideally situated:

    • yuti Rahu in 8th from Shukra lagna, and in the rashi of Brihaspati's enemy Shukra.

    • Yet, Guru is in a welcoming house and Guru's dispositor = the uchcha Shukra in kendra.

    • The husband is a professional artist, and he has always been able to find work (strong dispositor in 10th).

    From the Shukra Lagna, a somewhat problematic L-3+L-8 uchcha Shukra (hidden things) is joined by the highly auspicious L-5 Chandra

    • The spouses are creative artists (uchcha Shukra) who are very supportive of each other's art careers.

    • Nevertheless the type of artistic expression is not bohemian or experiemental but rather conventional and safe, due to Shani lord of navamsha, Shani in 7th rashi, and Shani drishti to 7th from Shukra.

    Their great joy is their children (L-5 Chandra)

    • Chandra is exceptionally strong and favorable swakshetra in the 7th navamsha = females primary role in marriage = parenting

    • The female native's radical lagna is located 4th from Shukra, = her natural affinity for home life, and her role as a responsible parent and citizen.

    • The spouses are hardworking property-owners (Chandra, also influence of Shani)

    Marriage chart 4 educated female spouse was attracted to her husband's:

    • unpretentious earthiness (Shani in 7th-from D-1 lagna);

    • his friendly eccentricity (L-7 Guru + Rahu);

    • his peculiar intellectuality (Budha = lord of 7th-from-Moon-yuti-uchcha Shukra).

    • His remarkable artistic talent - L-7 Guru occupies Shukra's navamsha, while Shukra is exalted in D-1

    • He was a friendly, quirky, spacey, wild-idea artist with no visible means of support - but he had exceptionally high "EQ" ("emotional intelligence quotient") due to L-7's navamsha lord Shukra being yuti the wife's Moon.

    She liked all that. Decades later, it's all still there. He's the same nut she married. And she's still crazy about him.


    Marriage chart 4navamsha displays some subtle disappointment in marriage (neechcha lagnesha Shani), but overall quite nurturing, with very little overt conflict.

    • the native , represented by nurturing, maternal Soma in navamsha-7th, is happy to love, nest, and care for her husband and children.

    • She does not ask for, because she does not need, too much direction or attention from the spouse. She has plenty of struggle in this life, but most of her conflict during the current incarnation is with her own career and health - not with her marriage.

    • The public may view her husband's working-class background (Shani/7) and relatively less verbalized and non-commercial personality (Budha + Ketu in radix, Budha + neechcha Shani in navamsha) as "marrying down".

    Yet in private this native is quite happy in her marital situation - despite the occasional moment of performance anxiety stress. Fallen Shani, significator of the husband in the female's navamsha, may cause restless or immoral behavior from the spouse during Shani's periods.

    Marriage chart 4 swakshetra Chandra in seventh navamsha shows the husband's wonderful parenting persona; with his emotional caretaking strength, he is also able to "parent" the (admittedly neurotic) female native. This woman will no doubt remain content to stay married, since the plusses far outweigh the minuses.

    Finally, the matching energy between wife and husband is found by locating the lord of the navamsha sign of L-7. Guru, radix L-7, occupies Thulanavamsha, so the psychic link is Tula's lord radix Shukra.

    • Uchcha Shukra is in kendra with a lovely Meena Moon. The marriage is artistic and blessed with treasuries of material wealth. Due to Chandra yuti, the marriage includes pleasant (Shukra) parenting (Chandra) behaviors. Shukra receives no drishti; the partnership = pleasant .


    Proof that the navamsha MUST be used to read the radix properly.

    Marriage chart 4 Radix house-7 contains a Shani/Dhanus with no helpful aspects;

    L-8 in 7 should indicate a chronically unhappy marriage to say the least.

    • Behari says of this curse, "Saturn makes marriage intolerable. All moral codes are discarded, and illicit affairs only become habitual. Family life disintegrates."


    Marriage chart 4is a contented marriagethat has strengthened over the years.

    • The wife is happy with her husband's performance in every area of life except "financial savings".

    • There are some modest difficulties with the 2-8 navamsha axis (which show some spousal "splurging"= navamsha L-8 Ravi + Rahu in navamsha 12)

    • Yet this is nothing too severe. Indeed this couple enjoy a solid middle-class lifestyle including ownership of a home and multiple vehicles.

    It is true that Shani's Nakshatra quarter is more favorable than the general reading.

    Yet it is also important to appreciate the insights gained from checking FIRST the role of lord of navamsha L-7 (spouse in marriage) and navamsha L-1 (self in marriage), in order o avoid unbalanced predictions from judging only material conditions of the radix.


    see Divorce Chart 22 and comments there.


    Examples of radix-navamsha correspondence patterns in long-lasting marriages:

    Marriage-2 is a strong, traditional union with children. Psycho-emotional Matches:along three axes provides a broad base of supporters. (Note the powerful connection across Mesha/Tula axis. This couple has a lifetime shared commitment to stay athletically fit and physically attractive. They have always motivated each other to exercise and dress well.)

    • his radix Moon axisand his navamsha nodesmatches her radix lagna And hernavamsha lagna [Mesha/Tula]

    • his radix Nodesmatch axis of her radix Moonand her navamsha Moon[Karka/Makara]

    • her navamsha Nodesmatch his navamsha lagnaaxis and his navamsha Moon axis [Simha/Kumbha] -(matching across navamsha's, giving interpersonal support)


    Marriage-4 is a strong, traditional union with children. Psycho-emotional matches: along three axes provide good support. This couple are creative artists who permit each other a wide range of independent function but they also enjoy family life together.

    • Her radix Moonaxis matches his navamsha lagna [Kanya/Meena]

    • His radix Moon Axis matches her navamsha nodes And her radix lagna [Mithuna/Dhanau]

    • Her navamsha lagnamatches his navamsha nodes And his navamsha Moon(interpersonal support) [Simha/Kumbha]


    Marriage-5 is a strong, non-traditional union with children. Psycho-emotional matches: his is a non-traditional relationship and the psycho-emotional matching shows that this couple is not "out" in most public venues where male-female compatibility would strike a different balance. This is a creative bond and a lasting bond. Their strength is interpersonal support.

    • partner-2 radix Moonaxis matches partner-1 navamsha Moon [Simha/Kumbha]

    • partner-1radix Moonaxis matches partner-2 radix nodal axis [Vrishabha/Vrischika]

    • partner-1 navamsha nodalaxis matches partner-2 navamsha nodalaxis [Karka/Makara] - interpersonal support

    • partner-1 navamsha lagna matches partner-2 navamsha lagna[Mesha/Tula] - interpersonal support


    Marriage-6 is a strong, traditional union without children. Psycho-emotional matches occur on one axis only. (This couple is somewhat isolated socially.)

    • Her radix nodal Axis and her navamsha lagna/Moonaxis matches his radix Moon And his navamsha nodal Axis.

    • Her Moon is not "recognized" in his navamsha. This marriage accommodates a significant emotional gap. There are compensating extra-marital interests.


    Marriage-7 is a strong, traditional union with children. Psycho-emotional matchesare extensively bonded on four of six possible rashi axes.

    This couple participates in several different interlocking communities, (school, church, fellowship, sports etc.) and have a large repertoire of mutually enjoyed activities. Multiple bonds give many different "stakeholders" a share in socially supporting their marriage.

    • His navamsha nodesmatch her radix lagnaaxis [Simha-Kumbha]

    • Her navamsha lagnamatches his navamsha lagna, and matches his radix lagna{Dhanau/Mithuna]

    • His radix moonmatches axis of her navamsha nodesand axis of her navamsha Chandra [Karka/Makara]

    • His navamsha Chandra(matches his own radix nodes and) matches her radix nodal axis [Vrishabha/Vrischika]


    Marriage-11 is a strong, non-traditional union with children. Psycho-emotional matches are limited to two axes, this couple tends to be heavily focused on their home (Chandra) and therefore slightly isolated. :

    • partner-1 rAdix Moon/nodalaxis matches partner-2 navamsha Moonand radix Moonaxis[Dhanau-Mithuna]

    • partner-2 navamsha nodesmatch partner-1 navamsha-lagna Axis [Karkata-Makara] - interpersonal support


    Marriage Karma (rules for action) seen in Navamsha

    When reading the navamsha for spouse profile, keep in mind a peculiarity: 1st partner may be profiled from either7th navamsha (most common) Or1st navamsha.

    • Initially, always try using 7th navamsha as lagna for the first spouse.

    • However, if the 7th really doesn't represent the spouse as you know them, be willing to read first spouse and all of their relationships - parents, children, previous spouses, etc. - from the D-9 lagna.

    • DeFouw and Svoboda in Light on Relationshipscall this phenomenon the "80/20 rule".

    • Approx 80% of navamsha charts will read correctly for the spouse = 7th D-9.

    Rashi of D-9 Lagna

    Self-behavior in marriage, judged from D-9 lagna

    • and presuming that 1 = self while 7 = partner . Must be adjusted if any graha in lagna.

    • If the significations of the polar rashi do not seem to match the couple as known by their friends, family, or the public -- consider the possibility that 7 = self while 1 = partner.

    Expectation of the partner.

    Mesha


    Mesha

    A heroic sport, an athletic competition, an exchange of bodies, a burst of vital energy in new birth and new identity.

    Mesha tends to physical-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of animal-sexual instincts.

    Understanding and expression of the marriage bond may be quite primitive, depending on the role of lord of D-9 in radix..

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Thula

    The spouse should be gracious, diplomatic, balancing and harmonizing. Usually a pleasantly sensual arranger of people and things. Excellent placement for spouse = professional in matters of justice and equality under the law.

    The partner may be a professional negotiator, broker, attorney, match-maker, architect, designer, or interior decorator.

    • UK-PM Tony Blair's wife Cherie is a successful attorney (barrister) as well as a skilled negotiator

    • So is the wife of USA Pres-42 Bill Clinton, the career attorney, legal consultant, and USA Secy State Hillary Clinton

    Such a partner often wishes to live in a very gracious environment, in a diplomatic community, or in the company of deal-makers.

    2nd-partner = 8th-from-Thula = Vrishabha

    Vrishabham


    Vrishabham

    A luxurious and wealthy pleasure, an exchange of pleasures.

    Vrishabham tends to sensual-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of pleasure experiences.

    collects wealth and sensual pleasures.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Vrischika

    a fascinating, esoteric, penetrating, and often hidden personality due to Ketu + Mangala.

    The partner should be mysteriously powerful, with access to confidential information and magical, transformative energy.

    Secrecy is an important power for the spouse. It may be necessary to conduct the marriage in a veiled way, to prevent unwanted discovery.

    • Carla Bruni had a secret relationship with her fiancé's son, who became the father of her child

    • when they were students, Albert Einstein had a hidden child with Mileva Maric. The fate of their lost daughter has never been discovered.

    • UK Queen Victoria I after a period of widowhood carried on a long covert relationship with her attendant, John Brown.

    The spouse may be skillful at re-inventing oneself.

    This is a particularly sexual or tantrik placement = intensity of controlling behavior in the spouse.

    The primary relationship may remain completely hidden from public view.

    Alternatively, the native may avail oneself of tantrik practices which transform the marital-sexual energies into more esoteric realms.


    2nd-partner = 8th-from-Vrischika = Mithuna

    Mithuna


    Mithuna

    A sexual and verbal conversation, an exchange of narratives

    Mithuna tends to mental-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of information and ideas.

    The general balance of the marriage or union =

    • the native = messenger, evangelist, the primary communicator, writer and announcer, secretary, media-producer, administrator and event planner in the relationship.

    • The partner performs important rituals, teaches wisdom, inspires others via sermons and lectures, and leads globalization activities.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Dhanushya

    One expects the partner to be a wise guide. The partner should be a religious or deeply philosophical person with strong convictions regarding the divine and matters of intuitive faith. Public acts of faith, publicly stated Beliefs of the partner may be orthodox or otherwise according to the stature of Guru in the native 's own radix.

    the native expects the partner to be a preacher, professor, a priest, a guru, a spiritual guide, a teacher of high religion.

    Mithuna navamsha often remains unmarried because the primary life relationship = the Guru.

    The partner should be a world traveler, a frequenter of temples, a ritualist (pujari) a philosopher, or a moral guide with patriarchal wisdom.

    • Such a partner often wishes to live in a university campus, in a multi-cultural environment, within a community of religious philosophers and world travelers.

    Downside: the partner may be trapped in a ritualistic worldview, or substitute philosophy when pragmatic and timely action is required.

    2nd-partner = 8th-from-Dhanushya = Karkata = land-loving, homebody, parenting, habitual, gardening, steward, patriot, and protector

    3rd partner = 8th-from-Karkata =

    Karkata


    Karkata A nurturing, parenting shelter, an exchange of caretaking.

    the native is of a rather retiring nature, preferring the sheltered stability of home to the exposure of public life.

    Division of labor between the parents is most important.

    Karkata tends to parental-ize the native 's behavior inmarriage, focusingrelationship expectations on exchange of protective supports.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Makara

    Division of labor between the partners = most important., particularly when the partners are parents.

    Spouse may be a top-ranked corporate executive, a government officer or other institutional dignitary.

    Should be regular, disciplined, orderly in habits, aware of the ranking systems of large pyramid-shaped hierarchies, status conscious, class-conscious.

    Typically the partner enters the marriage with high rank or is ambitious to achieve a higher rank with lawful effort and over time.

    The spouse must be reliable, pragmatic, mature, have strong bones, stamina, and endurance. The partner should be able to direct a considerable size of social organization, if Shani in strong in the nativity.

    2nd-partner = 8th-from-Makara= Simha

    Simha


    Simha

    A display of regal, political, theatrical, creative power; an exchange of celebrity.

    Simha tends to glamor-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of entertainments.

    Most of the public attention in the marriage is focused upon the native oneself.A royal expression of joint celebrity and privilege.

    the native may believe oneself to be a very important person both within the marriage and in public. Marriage = political relationship. Costume, performance, and noblesse oblige are important.

    Partnership is creative and dramatic, ideally it will be focused on channeling divine intelligence.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Kumbha

    One expects the partner to be a social networker, capable of organizing the vast interconnecting circles of association within the native 's life.

    Partner should be a systematic scientific but likely rather eccentric personality who functions well in context of assemblies, congregations, with the masses.

    Kumbha = co-ruled by both humble, conformist Shani and risk-runner Rahu.

    The partner should be principled, neutral, connected. It is fine if the partner = a somewhat common or working-class person or if from a distinctive background then perhaps a bit Rahu-ish, roguish, eccentric. Scientific in approach, and a competent functionary in large, distributive network environments but there should be a twist of taboo-breaking or unusual behavior.

    As a general balance, the native has high entitlement to enjoy limelight attention and applause, while the partner (Kumbha) = a more background structuring force and imposer of order, who advances the couple's material goals and achievements while governing their social network.

    2nd-partner = 8th-from-Kumbha = Kanya

    Kanya


    Kanya

    One is a servant to the marriage.

    One proposes an argument, files an accusation, generates an exchange of illnesses or complaints.

    a sustained analysis and practice of logical argumentation

    Kanya tends to adversarial-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of conflicts.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Meena

    The spouse should be artistic, intuitive, dreamlike, a spirit guide to the native , prayerful; capable of channeling clairsentient visions. Great disappointment if this is not true.

    Private bedroom communion is very important in this relationship; public presentation or facade does not matter as much. The marriage partner = deeply intuitive but need not be sexual.

    The spouse is often a sensitive or other-worldly person, such as an artist lost in the creative process, or clairvoyant reader performing spiritually guided divinations.

    • Such a partner often wishes to live in a secluded area, even in a monastery, or in a distant land.

    • Shirley MacLaine's husband was a film producer who lived in a distant land (Japan) while maintaining their union

    • Virginia Woolf's beloved husband was her muse but not her intimate partner

    • Arthur Conan-Doyle's first wife was clairvoyant; due to her illness she was sequestered in her bedroom, and the marriage was rarely consummated

    • Privacy and sanctuary are very important.

    Downside: Meena = dissolution of fleshly identity. Spouse overly involved in liquid dissolution.

    Thula


    Thula = balance

    A balanced contract or legal agreement, an exchange of interests.

    Thula tends to equal-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of values.

    In the event of divorce for such a marriage, the native is prone to split assets equitably or to follow the justice protocol set by law.

    a harmonious balance of mutual interest

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Mesha = movement

    Spouse should be innovative, a winner, a competitor, a sporting person, a fashion model, distinctively flesh-body oriented, dedicated to maintaining a competitive appearance. Must be independent, a hunter, a warrior, a dancer.

    • Gerald Ford's wife Betty Ford was a professional dancer

    • unfortunately Prince Charles Windsor's first wife was not much of an athlete. He needs a physically oriented partner however so his relationship with the animal-loving equestrienne Camilla P-Bowles continued after marriage

    primarily physical, competitive, athletic personality; not afraid of blood.

    Partner may be involved in the athletics business, in cutthroat competition, in races and contests to be first, in new ideas and new techniques, a fashion model, a dancer, a racer, a sports coach.

    • Such a partner often wishes to live near sporting venues, such as horse-racing or ski areas.

    Downside partner may be immature or selfish.

    Vrischika


    Vrischika

    A mysterious discovery, or a tantrik hunt, an exchange of secrets.

    deeply confidential, almost secret relationship between the two partners.

    Vrischika tends to confidential-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of privileged knowledge.

    the native retains considerable control in the union.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Vrishabham

    The partner should be a wealth-accumulator, naturally attracted to money, stored worth, and collections of items of value. Often the partner has musical or artistic talent.

    The partner should have a lovely voice, teeth, mouth, and eyes, and be committed to caring for those beauties and other valued assets. Sensual pleasures of fine food and drinks, delicious tastes and sensual touch, are more important than public dignity.

    The partner should be knowledgeable, especially re: art, languages and history.

    One may tend to think of the partner = as an object of value, a collectable, rather than as a participating equal.

    • Such a partner often wishes to live on an estate in the countryside, among the grazing horses and cattle, surrounded by works of fine art.

    Downside: the partner can become excessively acquisitive.

    Dhanushya


    Dhanushya

    A temple celebration, a religious oath, an exchange of philosophical confidence.

    Dhanusha tends to ritualize-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of ceremonial vows. marriage = a religious vow un dertaken largely for the purpose of producing and teaching children (and not so much for conforming to social regulations).

    • For a male, marriage is a vehicle toward becoming a guru and entering fatherhood

    • for a female, marriage purpose is embarkation upon the wisdom-teaching priesthood

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Mithuna

    Ideally the partner = commercialist, administrator, a writer, reporter, in the media-production business, concerned with meetings and plans, writing, films, journalism, publication, story-telling, communicative arts.

    partner = a sexual twin, a narrative exchange, a literary conversationalist, mercurial wit, mentalist. There is often a mutual understanding of free interest to mingle with other partners.

    Since Budha rules the 10th navamsha as well as the 7th, both partners may be successful writers.

    • George Harrison (Beatle) first wife was a photojournalist; the marriage was not exclusive

    • USA Pres-35 John F. Kennedy 's wife Jackie Kennedy was a newspaper journalist

    • Brigitte Bardot 's husband was a film-maker

    • Brad Pitt and his first wife Jennifer Aniston developed a film-production company together

    If the spouse is not a vibrant and mercurial communicator, much disappointment.

    • Such a partner often wishes to live in a city or a commercial area, where many mental diversions and communicative exchanges are available.

    Mithuna means sexual multiplicity and several important communication partners. Karaka for multiple life partners.

    Makara


    Makara

    Marriage is a sober responsibility, an exchange of leadership duties, an establishment of orderly process in society and in the home.

    Makara tends to material-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of duties. Division of labor between the parents is most important.

    Generally, the native wishes for the partner to provide a basis (4) in life, a foundation of emotional security and shelter.

    Act of public duty, designed to uphold the leadership reputation and ensure social dignity.

    If this essential security can be established successfully (and that depends very much on the condition of Chandra in one's radix) then the native is best suited to public work, managing hierarchical organizations in an orderly fashion, imposing laws upon the populace, and directing groups from the pinnacle position.

    If Chandra is well disposed, the division of labor can be smooth with the partner serving as stay-at-home parent and the native secure to pursue a dignified career.

    If Chandra is disabled, the relationship however well configured structurally (fine home, good parenting habits etc.) may collapse.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Karkata

    The spouse should be primarily a parent and a homemaker, with a great sense of care for the natural environment and the land. Partner may be a great patriot and roots-culture-activist but generally the patriotic feelings are strongest for the local area.

    The spouse does not need a distinguished public profession but rather the skills of emotionally-responsive parenting are the most important contribution to the union from the native 's point of view. A habitual person.

    Spouse may be an environmentalist, a school-teacher, a nanny, a parent primarily, a lover of the land and the oceans, a gardener and caretaker, a steward and boater, manager of the homestead.

    • Such a partner often wishes to live in a tidal region or near the ocean waters. High security for the dwelling and surrounding properties will be needed.

    As a general balance, the native is a career professional with a strong orderly urge toward ascent of a hierarchy of rank and respect. The spouse prefers to remain at home and hearth. This is a comfortable public-private balance that supports a traditional family lifestyle quite effectively.

    Kumbha


    • Sigmund Freud

    • Michael Moore expose-filmmaker

    Kumbha

    A partnership within the larger community, an exchange of networks

    Kumbha tends to collective-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of ideologies.

    One important link within a larger network of associations.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Simha

    The partner should be a self-central person, confident and radiantly dramatic; ideally someone with political, theatrical, gambling, or entertainment skills.

    • USA Pres-32, Franklin D. Roosevelt's wife Eleanor Roosevelt was a highly capable politician whose career outlasted his own

    • Katie Holmes's husband Tom Cruise = a famous movie actor

    The spouse is expected to be politicized and glamorous, in the bright lights of fame, seeking applause and obtaining admiration via expressions of creativity and performance arts intelligence.

    Expectation of an attention-getting, visible, high-profile spouse with aristocratic behaviors and royal entitlements. Native expects the spouse to be at the center of one's life system.

    Spouse helps to call the native into brighter visibility, promoting the native 's recognition while the native helps the couple to achieve their goals (Kumbha).

    • Such a partner often wishes to live in a hot, hilly region (Simha) or in a royal neighborhood where courtly entertainments are celebrated.

    • Katie Holmes's husband Tom Cruise lives in celebrity Hollywood

    Downsides: solipsism and extreme self-focus of the spouse, to the extreme of inability to divert personal attention to the interests of the native .

    Meena


    Meena

    Marriage is a childlike dream, a sleepy sanctuary, an exchange of fantasies.

    Meena tends to private-ize the native 's behavior in marriage, focusing relationship expectations on exchange of imaginative awareness..

    the native is prone to dissolution, often returning to the otherworldly state in imagination or prayer.

    dream, a fantasy, a private enclosure

    the native often wishes to live in a lake district, near a deep still lake, for water-gazing.

    (Adjust for any graha in D-9 lagna.)

    Kanya

    The partner is a servant to the marriage, compensating in practical daily manual skill for the dreamy qualities of the spiritually guiding native.

    Partner should be humble and exploitable, highly logical and argumentative in nature, clean and youthful with profound attitude of service and a bendable will.

    The partner may be exceptionally skillful at measuring, writing, calculations and composing litigation or accusations or formal arguments for a case. Spouse = co-writer or ghost writer for the native 's books.

    Spouse = physician or a pharmacist, house-cleaner or agricultural worker, possibly a relative on the mother's side.

    • Such a partner often wishes to live with the mother's relatives, in a servant's quarters, or in the workplace

    Downside: the spouse may be exceptionally articulate in criticism and have a habit of blaming others.


    Links between native's D-1 and partner's D-9

    Almost always there is a powerful connection between the native 's D-1 planets and the spouse's D-9 planets - and of course, vice-versa. That is because the D-9 shows "recessive"traits/knowledge/awareness which have been waiting for this particular person to mirror them to us as clearly as possible. When we find that person we feel whole.

    All married people realize that getting along with the spouse requires being honest and getting along with one's self. We know we fell in love with them (or were otherwise bound to them) for a reason. That reason is that we are trying to become more like them, or at least to become maximally aware of their knowledge operating in our own space.

    Dishonest marriages are painful affairs seething with anger and guilt, victimization and blaming. Honest marriages are exercises in developing consciousness. It seems terribly ironic but also is brutally logical to understand that in fact, in our next life, we will "be"our spouse.

    Just as the student becomes the teacher, so the husband becomes the wife and the wife becomes the husband. Our dormant traits will -- through that spouse's evocative role-modeling-- become manifest. We will, oh yes, become exactly the opposite of the person we think we are, whom we have juxtaposed against this inscrutable Other. We will all become precisely those traits which we are SURE that we could never be!


    To see spouse(s) in navamsha:

    Look to the 1/7 axis in D-9to profile the first spouse. traditional ly Jyotisha takes the sign on the 7th navamsha house and reads it as lagna for the first spouse.

    • E.g., to see the first spouse's values/wealth, consider the 2nd-from-7th in navamsha which is D-9's 8th house (and its lord) within the D-9.

    • To see the first spouse's mother, consider 4th-from-7th, or karmaa bhava in the navamsha (and its lord) within the D-9.


    When reading the navamsha for spouse profile, keep in mind a peculiarity: 1st partner may be profiled from either 7th navamsha (most common) or 1st navamsha.

    Try 7th navamsha for a first reading of spouse's character, but if 7th-navamsha really doesn't represent the spouse as you know them, be willing to read first spouse and all of their relationships - parents, children, previous spouses, etc. - from the D-9 lagna.

    • Thus second spouse lagna would be the 8th navamsha, and second spouse's mother would be 4th-from-8th or the 12th navamsha. Etc.

    If there have already been several marriagesyou can really test the profiles of previous spouses against the D-9 lagna vs. the D-9's 7th to see which is more accurate.

    In fact, it may be that there is a correlation between folks who have multiple marriages and their navamshas, which must be read "spouse-wise"from the D-9 lagna rather than the D-9's 7th house.

    If the birth time is correct and 7th-navamsha doesn't work, then reading from 1st navamsha will give truth.

    In Light on Relationships , the respected Jyotishi-team deFouw and Svoboda discuss this D-9 lagna-as-spouse-lagna option.

    The choice between using the navamsha L-1 or navamsha L-7 as lagna for the first spouse is not a big problem, because all 12 rashi-signs are "yoked"into six yoga-pairs.

    For example, Simha must be understood never in isolation but always as the "solar"half of the Simha-Kumbha polarity. (There is no king without commoners; there is no politics without privilege.) So it will be second nature for the experienced Jyotishi to check the ruler of the opposite sign anyway.


    T here is one Best method to find the core character Of the spouse. This link represents the aspect of their reality which keeps you linked to him or her. This link when articulated can explain what the native is trying to become (or un-become) in the marriage:

    IMO, here is single most valuable technique for finding the point of matching energy which serves to attract the spouse. This matching energy maintains the work roster within the marriage until at least one of the parties has completed the transformation from ignorance into wisdom in regard to the contents of the link.

    This small set of core characteristics forms the "matching energy link"that we are using to create consciousness of our own preconceptions, presumptions, and unconscious reactionary behavior.

    The vehicle of marriage (including bhakti devotional marriages to a deity) provides the ongoing psychic laboratory for self-knowledge.

    Want to see what you are working on and why?

    1. find L-7, planetary lord of radix seventh house

    2. locate radix L-7 in the navamsha.

    3. determine the lord of this navamsha sign

    4. Then find this lord, who rules L-7's navamsha, back in the radix chart

    5. study this planet carefully. Study its character, rashi influence, drishti by sign and house, everything about it. T his is the matching energy point.

    6. Your experience of the spouse is grounded in this point. If L-7's navamsha lord is a genial, wise planet in radix, your marriage relationship will be delightful. The celibate religious often have exquisite marriage planets! However, if this graha is in a rough spot, so will be your spouse.

    7. The point is to take responsibility for the connection, the ongoing psychic tug-of-war with the Other. All those traits you have projected upon the spouse, are yours!


    D-9 lagna and its lord: Basic Attitudes toward Marriage When the lord of D-9 lagna, significator of the native 's own behavior in marriage, falls into a dusthamsha (6, 8, 12), there are negative implications for marriage.

    • 6 (Budha-ruled) = jealous and overtly warlike, with the likelihood of chronic animosity.

    • 8 (Kuja-ruled) = secretive and conniving, with the prospect of catastrophic upheaval.

    • 12 (Guru-ruled) = not conflicted but tends to become disconnected. The marriage energy gets dissolved by spiritual concerns.

    When the lord of D-9 occupies radix lagna, the native 's personality dominates the marriage. If the D-9 lord becomes strong and dominating, such as hot uchcha or swakshetra graha, spousal concerns must take a back seat"to the native 's personality development and the spouse must often "take it or leave it"having little power to negotiate for accommodation or change which might conflict with the direct interests of the native 's personality growth.


    Navamsha and "Soulmate"

    • The navamsha will in fact define your "soulmate"(or soulmates) if "soulmate"can be defined as the person(s) with whom one is karmically contracted to partner in this lifetime.

    • Navamsha shows the profile of one's partner(s) with whom one has agreed to partner - long before the current birth - for the purpose of advancing one's spiritual development.

    • The disjunct between the modern western concept of "soulmate" and the profile of spouse in navamsha is, however, that the "soulmate concept" has been commercially marketed.

    • It tends to be sugar-coated and unrealistic.

    • Look to the 7th navamsha for dominant pattern of expectations of the spouse. The partner whose Chandra matches one's 1-7 navamsha axis (or one's navamsha nodal axis) is that soul-mate, meant to be. Not easy - just properly matched!


    By contrast, Authentic Marriage is one of the most difficult spiritual practices available.

    p>As Dr. Phil says,

    • "Marriage is not a long date.

    • It's a partnership.

    • Partnerships involve give-and-take and sacrifice.

    • Men are really bad about understanding this."

    If one's concept of "soulmate" can mature into the full expression of committed partnership, with all the ego-stress and material difficulty that long-term commitment enforces, then one will discover that the navamsha of one's own nativity gives a very accurate picture of one's "soulmate".


    "Dr. Phil" on the "Soulmate" concept:

    Q:

    • Many people say that when it comes to marriage, they're seeking nothing less than a soul mate. Is that asking too much?

    Dr. Phil:

    • What's a soul mate? It's just a term somebody made up, and with it comes some pretty mystical expectations.

    • I've long believed that if you're looking for that perfect partner, you're making a big mistake.

    • If you can find an 80 percent fit and hope that you'll grow together on the other 20 percent, you'll find happiness lot quicker.

    • You wait for a 100 percent partner and you're going to be looking a long time, maybe forever.

    • But if you're okay on the core issues -- children, careers, division of labor, religion, handling in-laws -- then you jump in and handle the other things as they come along.

    -- Dr. Phil writing on Soulmates - Ladies' Home Journal magazine, January 2006


    Finding Compatibility factors vs. making a prediction of Marriage

    Q: Madam, Namaskar. Marriage is best as you have written in periods of Venus. While I would be running period of Mars-Venus from August-2010, my dream partner would be running Jupiter-Ketu. She will be running Jupiter-Venus from May-2011.

    A: Logically, there are only two conclusions available. Either this pair of nativities will not marry (which seems likely given the general lack of astrological affinity) or that they will marry but only during the period of overlap of mutual marriage periods. Regarding the two forthcoming Shukra periods, the range of overlap would be May-Oct 2011.

    Keep in mind that this partner is your dream partner, upon whom you have projected many detailed desires for marriage partnership - however, there is no marriage currently being negotiated, nor even an active social relationship. I would recommend to redirect your Jyotisha analytical attentions to real-world relationships and events against which the principles of Jyotisha can be measured and tested. Jyotisha may give undesirable results when used on astral-plane relationships (those which exist only in the dream state).

    In general, it only makes sense to engage in the detailed work of marriage prediction for couples who have an active love relationship and who are planning to be married - or for couples upon whose behalf an agent may be negotiating a marriage.

    • It does not make much sense to try to establish a mutual marriage date between two nativities that are not in a social relationship. To do so means investing a great deal of time into studying a relationship which cannot be tested or proven on the material plane. Without the test against real-world behaviors, Jyotisha is simply a parlor game. We need to test it against real people in real relationships to prove its validity.

    • In the classroom, it is good practice for students of Jyotisha to examine any two nativities for compatibility factors. But the mere ability to locate compatibility factors is not a basis for a prediction of marriage!

    • To properly learn the vidya in the modern age, it makes more sense to concentrate on one's own Vimshottari dasha timing and to evaluate one's own spouse profile. Then, examine the nativities of family members whose marriage dates are well known. Look at one's parents, siblings, cousins - note the Jyotisha factors that were present at the time of their marriage ceremonies.

    • Further, look to the karakas for the spousal profile. Evaluate your father's placement of Shukra, and see how his Shukra represents the qualities of his wife, your mother. Do the same thing for your mother, see her Guru position - all of Guru's characteristics, lordships from the Chandra lagna, role in navamsha, everything - and develop a wisdom about ways in which her Guru describes the man she married, whom you know so well as your Dad.

    For women in your family who might have a second husband, examine their Shani. For men who might have acquired a second wife, look to graha in association with Shukra, including graha in the two rashi that are ruled by Shukra.

    Studying the marriage patterns in many nativities will give you a much better sense of marriage unions and timing of the vow-speaking ceremonies which initiate the marriage commitment.

    • Looking too closely at one single potential partnership will not improve one's Jyotisha judgment and in fact may lead to Obsessive divinatory analysis.

    • (For example, I have a client who is obsessed with Fidel Castro, and who has asked 100 questions about Sr. Castro but does not care to look for similar patterns in other world leaders. This client always complains, don't tell me about Kennedy, don't tell me about Kruschev, I only want to know about Castro! But without the case studies, I think the Jyotisha principles can easily be appropriated by the mentally obsessive drive to profile and diagnose a single person. Then Jyotisha becomes psychologically invasive, and astrally manipulative; it becomes sorcery. And that I can't support.)

    Let us avoid stretching the basic principles of Jyotisha to create predictions with no foundation in reality. Rather, let us focus intently on material reality, on known events and verifiable social relationships, and let us build up a database of proven nativities for which real events happened when Jyotisha did predict them to happen.

    Then, when a similar pattern arises in one's own life, one can scientifically predict "yes this matches my Jyotisha profile" without damaging the analysis with anxiety, fantasy, future projection; psychological transference; or other non-scientific mental confusions.

    Wishing you all the best in Jyotisha Studies,

    Sincerely,

    B.P. Lama, Jyotisha


    May all beings venerate life as a state of deep spiritual intimacy.

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