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Unions 19:
hird
Marriage
Using the native 's radix and navamsha to find career
attributes of a future husband
Many of us in the west find ourselves "between marriages"
wondering about the characteristics of the next potential spouse. Also,
students of reincarnation who may not be interested in a subsequent spouse in
the current lifetime, may wish to investigate the characteristics of
future-life spouses. Jyotisha students in particular benefit from
focused exercise in counting houses from the karaka, in order to make
predictions about the substance and timing of events.
Committed intimate relationships are the central spiritual practice for
most people east and west. Marriage requires adherence to that
oh-so-difficult vow to hold the spouse as a living representative and
gift of the Divine. Whether marriage is consecrated solely with one's
Ishtadevata (as in the case of the celibate religious), with a spouse of one's
parents' choosing, with a single life partner of one's own choosing, or with
multiple consecrated partners over the course of a long and complex lifetime -
marriage remains the core spiritual practice of life.
IMO therefore questions similar to this one, about traits of a potential
third spouse, are not trivial. Such questions are spiritual in nature
and should be honored.
If the karma stored in one's subconscious mind - i.e., one's hidden expectations
-- can be revealed even partially through the vidya of Jyotisha,
this native will have an opportunity to acknowledge a truth about
herself (not always flattering). The very act of conscious awareness and
self-responsibility is the act that burns off future karma.
Will this third marriage actually manifest, and with these particular
characteristics? Yes. If not in this life, then in the next! The
good news is that the more meditative awareness work she is able to create
about these characteristics of hers (which without divination she would see
only in the default mirror of a human marriage) the more those characteristics
will develop on the positive side of the continuum I.e., a strong Mars
can be picky and contentious... or bold and courageous. It is our
divinely given privilege to develop the positive option through
consciousness.
Jyotisha analysis of career/public prestige attributes of prospective
third husband:
Should you care to enter a third life partnership, we can estimate the
profile of your 3rd husband from both radix and navamsha charts. Radix is more
about material consequences; navamsha is the astral body's patterns which
initiate the downstream ino the material plane.
Let's start building a profile of 3rd spouse's career:
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9th radix represents 3rd marriage
partner. -
From radix, which is the most material view, we see
career of 3rd husband as 10th-from-9th, which for you is Dhanau (vedic
Sagittarius). -
The planetary lord of this unoccupied house is for
you, the fairly auspicious Guru (Jupiter) in Simha (Leo). -
Guru's Nakshatra position yields this energy in your
subconscious, which will match the behavior of the 3rd spouse:
possessor of great wealth, children, spouse, and intelligence. Head of an
organization, or high ranking officer in the armed forces. [Behari,
Planets
in Signs and Houses] -
Guru's bhava position yields this energy in your
subconscious, which will match the behavior of the 3rd spouse:: Wealth,
respectability, social status, powerful creative potential, wise behavior
and great care in dealing with others. However, will be confronted by
hostile forces in life and will suffer from some chronic illness.
Difficulties in accumulating money, though you will never face a real
shortage in this regard. [Behari,
Planets
in Signs and Houses]
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(When the Jyotisha scriptures say
"wealth" they mean more like the older English meaning of
"weal" as we would say in "commonwealth" - that
is, shared values. "Well-being" = full range of values:
money for sure, but also aesthetic and ethical values, knowledge of
history and traditions, and language abilities that allow us to
communicate those values. -
It's not a contradiction as it seems, to say that
your 3rd husband would be wealthy and yet have difficulty accumulating
money. Such a person has the dharma of accumulating wealth but they
may face constant setbacks that make them less wealthy than optimal.
E.g., stock market fluctuations, expensive divorce, high-cost medical
expense etc. -
The total result is substantial but not
spectacular wealth. And importantly Guru gives this native optimism
that despite setbacks they will generally take two steps forward, one
step back - not the reverse! It's a good financial prospect, but a bit
of a roller-coaster pattern over the entire lifetime.)
Navamsha influence,
showing the astral pattern that initiates the downstream into the material
plane.
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The navamsha, which represents our subconscious
expectations, has a great deal of control over what happens on the
material plane (because we do get what we expect, even if we cannot
consciously appreciate what our subconscious is setting us up
for...) -
Features of the navamsha can contradict or enhance
the reality of the radix. So, if we don't check into the navamsha we might
get a misleadingly cheerful or dour prediction from the radix alone,
especially for anything having to do with the spiritual
"mirroring" function of intimate relationships. -
We attract intimate partners into our lives in order
to learn information about ourselves that we simply cannot detect without
having someone else feedback us on that behavior of ours. So, we look into
*your* navamsha to see what part of you this part is mirroring through his
career/professional space, and what you are expecting to experience in
regard to his public prestige and performance behaviors. -
Guru, who is undoubtedly an auspicious influence,
occupies your 5th navamsha in the rashi of Mesha (Aries) which is a darned
good location for Guru. -
One possible downside for an early-in-life marriage
would be that this location is not favorable for additional children
through the third marriage, but I'd guess at your station in life you
would rather direct your creativity into pleasures of the intelligent
senses and don't need to reproduce again. -
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However, the rubber meets the road at this level of
Jyotisha analysis, if we are looking for the astral driver of your 3rd
husband's career, the subconscious reason that you would unite with
him.
Guru's navamsha lord Kuja,and we read Kuja's behavior again from radix.
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Kuja in Kanya/3 (as we have explored in your CD
reading) has some difficult characteristics. However but those
difficulties can be very successfully managed by a mature adult (older
than 28, the year that Kuja "matures"). If consciously managed,
Kuja can bear fine fruit. -
Your experience of the 3rd husband's career therefore
is focused on verbally contentious struggle with siblings and team-mates,
much of it constructive eventually. Remember, other people will have other
views of and experiences with your third husband. We are focused
only on how he interacts with and affects *you*. -
house-3:
administrativebusiness processes, management consulting, or
corporate troubleshooting where he has to be a professional (but well
paid) bad guy who has an aggressive but accurate "just the
facts" attitude toward problem solving. -
Dysfunctional management teams or failing corporate
cultures may be a corrective specialty of his. -
Speech is aggressive at least in the professional
setting. -
Wealth definitely ensues due to 3rd house being house
of "self-made-wealth". -
You may have many business perceptions in common with
the 3rd husband, and admire the bald accuracy of his assessments. -
However it's not a good idea to actually work with
him in any type of business partnership, because you have empowered him
(due to your subconscious projection) to magnify one of your own traits:
your own somewhat impulsive, direct, factual, and hyper-corrective
communication style! -
Although in your case this trait is much softened by
your lovely, healing female rising Moon... his will be mentally even more
volatile because you will be projecting your Matibhramana
yoga onto him (Matibrahmana yogaoccurs when Chandra and
Budha, the main mental and emotional communicators, are yuti or receive
drishti from the two malefics Shani and Kuja.) Hey, that's what
relationships are for! Great Projecting Mirrors! -
Kuja/Kanya (Virgo) is associated with healing herbs,
medicines, pharmaceutical work - so your 3rd husband may have a
professional specialty related to medicines, especially in a sales or
marketing area, or in government regulation/public policy, or possibly
product development. -
However the administrative elements such as writing
reports and memos, attending meetings, presenting findings etc. are much
stronger than the individualized, creativework ofdesign
anddevelopment. -
It is more likely that he has a solid business
career, has invested his surplus income in speculative ventures (such as
stock market) very successfully, and will be a working professional when
you meet him.
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Meeting the 1st spouse = any period of Venus. [IMO
also Rahu] -
Meeting the 2nd spouse = period of
lord-of-2nd-from-Venus [IMO also Rahu] -
Meeting the 3rd spouse = Vimshottari period of
9th-from-Shukra [IMO also Rahu]. -
(Rahu who enflames desires is the "evil
twin" of Shukra!) -
For you, lord-of-9th-from-Shukra = period of Budha(Mercury)11/2007-6/2008. -
"Meeting"is the first definitive
moment of psychic intimacy (usually long before occurrence of physical
intimacy) which varies by culture. It can be a love-at-first-sight
moment; the first "overnight" date; the first meeting between
parentally arranged marriage partners (which varies from first meeting
nine years before arranged marriage, all the way to first meeting at the
actual marriage ceremony!). -
First meeting is not anything too random like an
email or meeting at a party. It needs that psychic merger quality
when you "know" intuitively that this person is the one.
(Unfortunately as with any other intuitive recognition, most people
override their intuition with anxious reasoning or "common
sense" and thus they fail to recognize the intuitive message.)
marriage
page for the Rahu-Ketu and navamsha axis lord rules, for timing of
marriage ceremony.
Psychic preparation for the most successful outcome:
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IMO the best preparation for a significant new
relationship is to build a clear, clear, clear psychic mock-up. Be just as
precise and aware as you can be about what you want in the next
relationship. -
Get right into the details. I find that extensive
journaling, visioning, and working through severalwalk-throughs of
what I *think* I want helps me find "gotcha's" and other issues
that emerge when vague yearnings are consciously transformed into specific
requests. -
However it's always worth remembering that once we
have established a clear view of what pleasure and status we want, and
what we hope to learn and achieve spiritually in the next phase, that we
leave the method and the timing entirely up to God. -
Once the mock-up is set, place it in a bubble and let
the bubble float upto the divine. She will receive it, and help us
reach our goals according to Her own plan. Tell God what you want, but
don't tell Her how to get it for you! -
(And if you change your mind on some of the
details,it's OK to send up "revised versions" of the
mockup. She understands.)
Here is a great example of mockup detailing from one of
my psychic teachers a long time ago.
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When the teacher was a young woman she so wanted to
join a group of other young women traveling to Europe for the first time.
None of them had traveled outside the US before and they were excited but
anxious about this life-changing new experience. -
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But, her group was determined to go the following
summer. -
So, she made a clear mockup: I won't tell God how to
do this, she said in meditation, but I believe that this trip will
happen for me. -
And she further envisioned The
crucial details:
walking through international airports, dining in French bistros,
traveling on European trains etc. - many of the material details which
anchored her mockup. As she walked through this desired future in detail
during her sitting meditation, the young woman did not see any glitches or
obstacles. The
vision was clear and bright, with no foggy or blurry
spots, which meant psychically that her mockup was grounded and going to
succeed. -
Well it turned out that within a few weeks of having
a very confirming meditation, seeing some beautiful museum sculptures in a
dream and waking up feeling exhilarated at this wonderful trip which was
building energy toward manifestation, this young teacher was traveling in
a car with three of her friends - all members of the trip group. -
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The car and driver were substantially insured.
Accident insurance payments, when combined with their existing savings,
covered all the (budget style) travel expenses for everyone in the
group. They were all pretty well healed by the time their flight
departed... however throughout the trip the power of their collective
mockup inspired "fear and trembling" for them all! -
My teacher's advice after this psychic experience was
to always create a *complete* mockup. She says in her case, she recognized
in hindsight that she needed to state more detail in her meditative
mockup. She should have said clearly: "The trip to Europe will
happen and it will be wonderful *and nobody gets hurt*"!!
So just having the most detailed, specific checklist of
qualities and quantities when one is building a mockup, especially one as
critical to life happiness as the mockup for a new marriage partnership, is
extremely important.
Ironically, karma is burned off by consciousness.
The more we know about ourselves and our interactions with others, the more
consciously we manage our reactivity, the less room there is for chronic
reptile-brain unconscious reaction.
Responsibility
- without guilt - is the key to transforming some of the karmic elements
of the 3rd marriage. An aggressive verbal environment or excessive
(dehumanizing) objectivity or general selfishness (Mars/Virgo/3 traits) can be
consciously redirected to into a proactive, mutually respectful, verbally
detailed, and very interesting relationship!
May all beings venerate life as a
state of deep spiritual intimacy.
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