This older man is exceptional in many
ways. He is a top theoretical scientist in his field. He has been at the
forefront of several contemporary research movements that have created
breakthrough perspectives in physical science & mathematics. He is a
much-awarded university teacher & mentor to younger practitioners. He
is also a successful businessman who has been able to convert his theoretical
knowledge into commercial applications (uccha Kuja/house-3).
In his private life he is also
unconventional, but unlike less reflective bachelors he holds principled,
carefully considered reasons for being so. He is neither a playboy nor
emotionally immature.
The native claims to know himself well.
In his own evaluation, the restrictions of marriage would create a negative
experience for him and his career interests. Not only does this fellow
require a very substantial amount of uninterrupted solitude for his theoretical
work; he also requires psychic freedom from pressure of lifetime commitments.
He lifetime pattern is pleasant romantic
involvement with educated, attractive, and available females with whom he enjoys
vacationing and local holiday weekends. However, during calendar time when
he is committed to the higher actions of research, teaching, and commercial
development of his ideas, this native declines all romantic companionship.
Extremely self-disciplined and strikingly productive, he has conducted numerous
long-distance and local partnerships with women in his intellectual peerage,
since early in his college years.
He is careful that his companions are never
expecting a monogamous commitment (he does not offer it); they are never married
(he does not participate in extramarital affairs except by very special
dispensation); and they are women of exceptional character and intellectual
ability who need their creative solitude as much as he does.
The amazing reality is that he never wants
for a suitable companion. Whatever the occasion, from family picnic to
exotic adventure travel, this native is always able to invite a lovely female
mate who, with adequate planning, can arrange her schedule to take advantage of
his company also. It all seems very dignified and mutually beneficial.
Despite relationships with women of
excellent character, he is studiously good at avoiding marriage.
Several
compelling periods of his life have brought profound love with women whom he
might have married.
The essential requirements of the proper bhukti lord
and gochara nodes have been met several times in his sixty years. Yet,
he escapes marital doom every time! Sometimes with heartbreak, but
always with freedom.
The Jyotisha explanation for his
anomalous situation lies in uccha Surya in domain-12. To
locate the Sun as source of this native's marital behavior, follow the
navamsha:
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L-7 Shukra occupies Leo navamsha
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therefore we look to lord of Simha in
radix to tell us how the native's subconscious expectations predispose
him to act out his marriage model.
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Fallen Ravi in the house of
dissolution and bed pleasures explains this fellow's weakness in
marriage. He is able to conduct the pleasurable aspects of
marriage but not the social duties which would require a much stronger
Sun in a much stronger house!
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Expectations for children are
governed by the same fallen Surya in vyayasthana. The native lacks
ego strength in the areas of marriage and children. He is able to
enjoy the private aspects of house-12, but the weak Sun limits his
ability to sustain and develop the social forms.
updated: 01 May 2008