Handling Animosity
Some Psychic Suggestions:
Anger, from an evolutionary point of view, serves a purpose. It's helped us survive. Anger is quite appropriate in response to an injustice or a wrong that needs to be righted.
But, as the Dalai Lama pointed out, if you're going to be effective in responding to what makes you angry, you need to keep the focus & energy of the anger, but drop the anger itself in order to act more skillfully.
-- Daniel Goleman, Healing Emotions: Conversations with the Dalai Lama on Mindfulness, Emotions, & Health
What to do about some one or some organization that you *really hate?* Somebody who *really deserves* to be hated? Thieves, creeps, exploiters. Rapists, swindlers, torturers. Polluters. Liars. Evil co-workers. Abusive bosses. Vicious neighbors Cruel judges. Bullies.
Well, first of all, Give Yourself Credit. You are ever so clever. You have created an enemy!
The fact that your enemy exists in your conscious awareness- and that you hate them - is actually a very good sign. It's good because it indicates that have brought up stored subconscious hatred into conscious awareness. It's not just sitting silently in your subconscious memory, eating away at your life like a hidden cancer. You, most intelligently, have brought this stored toxin to the surface, from whence it can be safely released.
It's just one small step to total elimination. One tiny action to force the total toxic purge.
Hate stored from past lives is what creates enemies in the current life. Hatred is a horrible toxin, which poisons our beautiful world on personal, national, and racial levels.
If you are committed enough to your own happiness -- if you are willing to Let Go and Let God where your enemies are concerned -- you may be healed of this great sickness. In the west we have a much beloved role-model who demonstrated this cure while hanging to death on Calvary Hill. By all accounts, it worked for Him!
Try this guilt-free, grief-free, forgiveness technique for releasing your enemies in this life:
How to Get Rid of An Enemy with Neutral Compassion
Accept responsibility (not guilt1) for having created this authentic hate relationship with another person or group.
Acknowledge how clever you are for having manifested an old, unfinished past-life karma into your current life, so that you could fix it now.
Be willing to release the matching fear energy in your own space which is what allows the enemy to plug in to your aura. They can't plug in if there is no match.
If there is conflict energy in your space, scarcity thinking, fear - release it. It's a simple as making the mental intention, and giving your body permission to release. KISS - Keep It Sweet and Simple.
Make a clear mental image of the enemy. Experience that hate vibration one last time. Yuck. It's very uncomfortable and sick. Since hate and its source energy - fear - tend to lurk in the 1st chakra (old survival energy), put a big grounding cord on your first chakra, and ground down to the center of the earth. Make sure your grounding cord is firmly anchored. Send that big toxic tumor of angry hate energy right down the grounding cord. Plunk.
Release your interest in the relationship with the enemy. Accept *no responsibility whatsoever* for the other person(s) and their actions toward you. Whatever vile thing they do is their problem. This means no guilt or your part. You take responsibility for your own actions solely.
(Note this is exactly like selling your car. On the day you sell your car, "my car" which had been a precious, important extension of your very body, suddenly becomes "the car" about which you care nothing. The miraculous change from Very Involved/Obsessed to Total Apathy that occurs when you Release your Interest in the Vehicle, can also occur when you Release your Interest in an Unwanted Relationship.)
Put out a request to the higher powers that this nasty person be helped to TAKE THEIR NEXT STEP. This is a nice, positive, but firm way of psychically saying, "Git along now. I mean Git!"
Remember you're not specifying what should happen to them. You're not asking for them to be hurt or punished. You're asking for them to be helped to *move along.*
Close your eyes. Make an image of the enemy. Place the enemy image in a golden soap bubble. If it's a big enemy like a whole country or a whole race of people (this works very well for racism, which we all slip into sometimes) make an extra-big golden bubble. Then send that bubble off to the Supreme Being.
You don't care what happens to them. It's not your job to micromanage other people's karma. It *is* the Supreme Being's job, so you just delegate up... return your interest in the matter to central control. She'll take care of it.
You might need to practice the enemy-in-golden-bubble-returned-to-Supreme-Being several times. After each send-off, be sure to fill up your entire body, especially first chakra region, with bright golden light.
About Losses from Lawsuits (Ari Bhava and 6th lord)
"Matching energy" ensures that those who fear legal reprisal will attract legal reprisal.
As Trulshig Rinpoche (Nepal) used to say, "That's just how it is!"
Often such a fear originates in past lives, where the person committed some type of moral error and got away with it. In the current life, they expect (and often receive) the reprisal they believe they have long deserved.
The karmic backlash *can be effectively avoided* through meditation and conscious behavior, including the person's willingness to accept psychic responsibility for the adversarial situation in which they find themselves.
Unfortunately however, most people are sleep-walking caught in the web of reactions… and therefore most people who fear lawsuits will attract lawsuits.
Check your belief system.
Are you holding an expectation of reprisal?
Some punishment pictures lingering in your aura perhaps?
Release all negative imagery and replace with trust, shelter, protection, and goodwill.
This can be a time-consuming task involving many hours of healing meditation, but well worth it to avoid the emotional and material consequence of angry litigation.
Have a competent healer check for anything you might have missed in self-inspection. And remember, it's responsibility *without* guilt :)
Mahatma Gandhi - Enemy Management Example
Personal, National, and Racial Animosity on a Global Scale.
Mahatma Gandhi definitely had some enemies. He wanted the racist, exploitive British colonial administration of Occupied India to leave his country. He wanted himself, and millions of his Indian countrymen, to experience full self-determination under a native Indian government. He wanted to be Free.
But British forces had occupied India for centuries, and the British economy had prospered while exploiting India's resources. Although the British were much hated, few Indians believed that their evil oppressors would ever go away.
Most Indians chose instead to stew in their hatred of the British, causing sporadic violent native upheavals that were aggressively, often viciously, put down by clearly superior British forces. The enemy seemed huge, evil, and insurmountable.
In the beginning Gandhi too hated oppressors and oppressive systems (like apartheid in So. Africa, where he worked as a young man.) He found himself overwhelmed and in danger of being destroyed by his own hatred. Then, after accepting the scope of the problem and meditating on the nature of change, Gandhi determined that all outer-world purification grows from the seed of private individual purification.
Gandhi developed and applied a concept called "Satya Graha" (= Force of Truth; = non-violent force) to all of his enemies, public and private. He followed a system somewhat similar to the steps above. Every day he purified himself of all anger, and humbly requested the higher powers to help the enemy move along. In this peaceful, neutral frame of mind, Gandhi did much practical action. He led huge non-violent protests, endured hunger strikes, and completed marathon walks - with no malice in his heart, but relentlessly calling attention to the problem. Millions of non-violent Indians eventually joined him.
In the end, Gandhi's personal goal of purifying himself of anger, and his national goal of purging the British toxin from India, were both met via the same Release technique.
Indian freedom was finally achieved by a remarkable chain of world events -- unrelated to local Indian politics -- that left Britain so bankrupt after WWII that she could no longer afford to colonize India.
And so the higher powers gave Britain her next step. By releasing his interest in the enemy, both India and the Mahatma were freed.
"It is easy enough to be friendly to one’s friends. But to befriend the one who regards himself as your enemy is the quintessence of true religion.
The other is mere business."
-- Mohandas K. Gandhi (1869–1948) Non-Violence in Peace & War, vol. 2, ch. 248 (1948) -- www.gandhiserve.org
"Mental violence has no potency and injures only the person whose thoughts are violent. It is otherwise with mental non-violence.
It has potency which the world does not yet know."
-- M. K. Gandhi (1869–1948) Non-Violence in Peace & War, vol. 1, ch. 256 (1942) www.gandhiserve.org
Even though there are so many of us on this planet, everyone can only see themselves.
We depend on others to eat, to have clothes, to find a job or become famous, and yet we regard other people as our enemies even though we are all so intimately connected.
Is this not a patent contradiction?
~~ H.H. Dalai Lama. (2004). 365 Dalai Lama: Daily Advice from the Heart, Matthieu Ricard (Ed.)
"When Tibet was still free, we cultivated our natural isolation, mistakenly thinking that we could prolong our peace and security that way.
Consequently, we paid little attention to the changes taking place in the world outside.
Later, we learned the hard way that in the international arena, as well as at home, freedom is something to be shared and enjoyed in the company of others, not kept to yourself."
~~ Budapest, 1994
"I believe that Tibet will be free only when its people become strong, and hatred is not strength.
It is a weakness.
The Lord Buddha was not being religious, in the popular sense of the term, when he said that hatred does not cease by hatred.
Rather, he was being practical.
Any achievement attained through hatred [can only invite] trouble sooner or later."
~~ Statement, 10 March 1971
~~ H.H. Dalai Lama. (2002). The Pocket Dalai Lama. (Compiler, & Ed.). www.shambhala.com
updated: 24 August 2008
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