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Reflection on the Grand Cycle of
Parenting: The Seven-step Cause-and-Effect
Method
If we have been reborn time after time, it
is evident that we have needed many mothers to give birth to us. ...the
first cause bringing about bodhicitta is the recognition that all beings
have been our mother.
The love and kindness shown us by our mother in
this life would be difficult to repay. She endured many sleepless nights
to care for us when we were helpless infants. She fed us and would have
willingly sacrificed everything, including her own life, to spare
ours.
As we contemplate her example of devoted love, we
should consider that each and every being throughout existence has treated
us this way. Each dog, cat, fish, fly, and human being has at some point
in the beginningless past been our mother and shown us overwhelming love
and kindness.
- Such a thought should bring about our
appreciation. This is
the second cause of bodhicitta.
As we envision the present condition of all these
beings, we begin to develop the desire to help them change their lot.
- This
is the third cause, and out of it comes the fourth, a feeling of
love
cherishing all beings.
This is an attraction toward all beings, similar to
what a child feels upon seeing his or her mother.
- This leads us to compassion, which is the
fifth
cause of bodhicitta. Compassion is a wish to separate these suffering
beings, our mothers of the past, from their miserable situation. At this
point we also experience loving-kindness, a wish that all beings find
happiness.
As we progress through these stages of responsibility, we go
from wishing that all sentient beings find happiness and freedom from
suffering to personally assuming responsibility for helping them enter
this state beyond misery. This is the final cause.
As we scrutinize how
best to help others, we are drawn to achieving the fully enlightened and
omniscient state of Buddhahood.
--from
An Open Heart: Practicing
Compassion in Everyday Life by
H.H. Dalai Lama, ed. Nicholas
Vreeland
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